To 7 years and Beyond!

Oh how time flies super fast. My Heinel just turned 7!

I have always believed that 7 is a milestone birthday. It is officially when a kid crosses from being a “child” to a “big kid”, or well that is how I explained it to my son. As a mom I guess it is a perfect excuse to be emotional and sentimental, right? As much as it is a milestone, it is also a statement and confirmation that I no longer have a “baby” to take care of. At the same time, it makes me so proud to see his growing independence and confidence in a lot of things; from having friends, to joining school activities. I have always been worried of his “life” in big school but this year he proved that he has matured and can handle being with more kids his age or older than him.

As we have seen him more comfortable in making new friends, our goal this year is to expand his horizon; for him to be further exposed in different activities. School is about to end in March and by then we hope we can get Heinel to try any sport or art activity. We believe in him and his talents, thus we want to enhance it further,

Oh, the plans that we have for him, so many! I guess that is what parents really are, right? But in my reflection this morning, I realized that we can only foresee things so much. However, at the end of the day, we can not control their future. We are only here to guide them to be good individuals and responsible decision makers. They will make their own future and destiny, and we should support them, and guide them of course but never to dictate them.

So to my son Heinel, a very very happy birthday to you! Continue being a good and wonderful boy. Your future is a bright as your smile. We love you and we are here to help you reach for your dreams!

 

6 Comments

  1. February 20, 2015 / 10:34 am

    Happy bday big boy!!

    • kat
      March 1, 2015 / 3:46 pm

      thanks Vivi

  2. February 21, 2015 / 5:42 am

    Happy Birthday to your big boy!! My 3 year old is already insisting he is no longer my baby boy but rather a big boy… Don’t they grow up so fast! Your post reminds me of the Dr Seuss book, Oh the places you’ll go – our kids could do or be anything and the world really is their oyster… Yet it won’t always be easy sailing either, we can’t always forsee what may happen, but we can dream with them!

    Popping over for #weekendbloghop

    • kat
      March 1, 2015 / 3:46 pm

      thank you Amanda!

    • kat
      March 1, 2015 / 3:46 pm

      Thanks Kleng. I still can’t believe I have 7-year old already. 🙂

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